kitten schreef:Ziet er inderdaad uit als een redelijk standaard spam bericht, maar dan per pb ipv per mail. Ik krijg nu al een week mails van Elena uit Rusland die in mij de waren gevonden denkt te hebben.
Helaas was het over de mail. Mijn mailadres bleek nog aan t forum van die band gekoppeld te zijn aangezien ik daar een tijdje had gemoddereerd. Band heeft dat nu opgelost.
Maar het is wel grappig want zo ben ik zomaar weer gaan kijken op de band site
kitten schreef:Ziet er inderdaad uit als een redelijk standaard spam bericht, maar dan per pb ipv per mail. Ik krijg nu al een week mails van Elena uit Rusland die in mij de waren gevonden denkt te hebben.
Wat leuk voor je kitten! dat je zomaar gevonden wordt! Wat is het leven soms simpel fantastisch!
Hi,Anouk,
I was just exploring FetLife fetish kinky world.
Following my clues inside this strange planet.
It was funny..I know..but I'm saying you the truth.
I was so surprised finding you.
So nice, with your expressive intense eyes framed by your charming sight,young and cute.
I think you'd be a very interesting, passionate amateur photographer.
"Eyes don't lie"..is an ancient Latin mot de dire.
It's so hard and so difficult to me beginning a self-presentation for you.
Many difficulties are here:
-my bad knowledge about English idiom and their nuances;
-an huge amount of age (more about of thirty years) that detaches each other;
and
-last but not least, we don't live in the same country, in the same cultural area.
I'm an aged newbie living in Italy.
I've broken my marital status three years ago -after a well satysfing long marriage- also because of my repressed desires.
You're so young and pretty.
You're living in a big,wonderful country like Netherlands.
I'm never been in Netherlands.I've contacted in the past few days only another one Dutch young girl.
Are you a true Dutch girl? Truly? Anouk? A strange nick..uhh? Maybe?
How do you live there with all your secret desires about BDSM's scene?
Is it so difficult nowadays?
Or it's easier for young people? In Netherlands..I could imagine..free rights land.
I'm so curious about you.
Are you maybe sub and dominant either?
Sorry..I mean..you're seemingly being shy by your sight, I presume.
But I wonder myself very intrigued by imagining you should be feel yourself a lot more like a domme than a sub or a simple young slave.
I think so hopefully.In my humble opinion.
Sorry if I've had bothered you.
Also in my country I was always so interested about young domme girl dominance.
I think that there is quite an antropological mutation.
A lot of young girls desire to be mistresses.(I couldn't figure that myself in terms of percentage).
Maybe in the other half-side of the sky in US and in Europe -both sides- a large majority of young men (18-25 y.o.)they don't be shy or scared about self declaring or outing like slaves in front of their mates, girlfriends or fiancèes.
In Italy I think -inside the bdsm scene- things they are a changing a little bit.
And so that's here I Am tryng to talking to you.
In your Home page you didn't declare you should be bored or worse bothered chatting or mailing with older men at about your daddy age.
I'm 53 yo. Am I so old for you?
Anyway.
I'm a middled aged man, but an absolute beginner,like an innocent lamb in the BDSM's scenario.
In my country there is so much freedom about sexual habits.Despite Catholic heritage.It's true.
But if you're a kinkster lover you don't have such many possibilities.
It's quite worse being or living in a gay status.I think.
Gay associations in Italy they're acquainting -day by day- with a stronger appearence.
Not yet a legal living status accomplished by statements and laws.
But for kinkster it seems things they're are not changing away.
Unless you're living into or next to the biggest cities like Rome, Milan or Turin.
Country-side or suburbian or small-town lifestyle is so boring and annoying.
You have to warning just a little off your home enclosures.Also for your vanilla friendships.
Sometimes also you've to hide and protect yourself in many funny manners if you wouldn't neighbourhood has to gossip and laugh a lot about you for months.
Anyway we had to survive.
Living at all beneath our desires.
Someone has to escape in some way.
In Italian we say: "vie di fuga"("escape" "paths" in a bad translation).
My escapes paths they are writing and surfing the net.
In my country there are also some national bdsm sites.
However only a very low minority (about 5% or minus)is so courageous or self attractive to show-on himself or herself with a photo book all over the world like here on FetLife.
But those sites they are like some a sort of literature clubs or in some other way a hard cruising place like Facebook.
You don't expose yourself like a kinkster on Facebook facing widely open minded coming out in front of your relatives, friends or colleagues or headworks.
And at least you have to move yourself for a long journey along the Paeninsula sometimes for nothing less than a coffee break or a pizza.(If you are lucky!)
In my country there aren't "munchies" at all or similar meet-up conventions like in Germany or UK.
BDSM's Italian life is so delayed or too late living in a prehistorical era.
Anyway,sorry if I've bothered you in some way.
Sorry again for my bad English.
I'd like to be accepted like your friend in your list.
So grateful if you did. Thanks in advance.
Die vind ik eigenlijk best aandoenlijk! Hij heeft er echt moeite op gedaan om je een persoonlijk bericht te sturen en heeft zich ingelezen op je profiel.
Vond hem wel schattig maar zo vaaaaag out of the blue... En nee, hij heeft niet helemaal begrepen hoe het zit, want ik schijn een amateur fotograaf te zijn
ik heb een licht aangepaste zeer gelijkende gehad op fetlife. Weet niet heel zeker of het echt dezelfde is, maar leeftijd en schrijfstijl en land komen overeen.
Wel opvallend dat er zoveel Italianen op zoek zijn naar iets 'over de grens'.
Via Fetlife komt er regelmatig iets langs....
En het gaat altijd over niet bepaald alledaagse zaken.
Wat is het leven soms simpel fantastisch! 
Elena wil van mij alleen een káchel van 100 kg.. die ik even mág opsturen, want haar dochter heeft het koudddd